Children are educated by what the grown-up is and not by his talk.儿童的教养源于成人的修为而非说教。The important thing is what he [a man] talks about, not whether he agrees with it or not.一个人重要的是他谈论什么、而不是他赞同或不赞同什么。The wine of youth does not always clear with advancing years; sometimes it grows turbid.青春美酒并不总是随岁月流逝而日渐清彻，有时它会日渐混浊。If one does not understand a person, one tends to regard him as a fool.不理解一个人，就往往会把他当成傻瓜。Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.理解自身的阴暗，是对付他人阴暗一面的最好方法。There are many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year&dots course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity.一年中的夜晚与白天数量相同、持续时间一样长。即使快乐的生活也有其阴暗笔触，没有“悲哀”提供平衡，“愉快”一词就会失去意义。耐心镇静地接受世事变迁，是最好的处事之道。I cannot love anyone if I hate myself. That is the reason why we feel so extremely uncomfortable in the presence of people who are noted for their special virtuousness, for they radiate an atmosphere of the torture they inflict on themselves. That is not a virtue but a vice.恨自己就无法爱他人。这就是在面对因其极度高洁而闻名的人时，我们感觉极为不安的原因：他们带来自我折磨的氛围——一种邪恶而非德行。Man needs difficulties; they are necessary for health.人需要困扰，困扰是心理健康的必需之物。Shrinking away from death is something unhealthy and abnormal which robs the second half of life of its purpose.对死亡的回避是不健康和异常的，它使生命第二阶段失去目标。The most intense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and their conflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.对最强烈冲突的克服，使我们获得一种稳定超然的安全与宁静感。要获得有益而持久的心理安全与宁静，所需要的正是这种强烈冲突的大暴发。There is no coming to consciousness without pain.没有痛苦，就没有意识的唤醒。From the middle of life onward, only he remains vitally alive who is ready to die with life.中年之后，只有已为告别人生做好准备的人，才能继续在生活中朝气蓬勃。The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely.最可怕的事情是完全接受自己。A collection of a hundred great brains makes one big fathead.集合起一百个伟大头脑，就会得到一个大傻瓜。Here we must ask: Have I any religious experience and immediate relation to God, and hence that certainty which will keep me, as an individual, from dissolving in the crowd?在此我们必须发问：我是否拥有任何宗教体验、拥有与上帝的直接关联，从而获得一种确然性，使我做为个体免于消融于群众？Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.潜意识如果没有进入意识，就会引导你的人生而成为你的命运。Wholly unprepared, we embark upon the second half of life. Or are there perhaps colleges for forty-year-olds which prepare them for their coming life and its demands as the ordinary colleges introduce our young people to a knowledge of the world? No, thoroughly unprepared we take the step into the afternoon of life; worse still, we take this step with the false assumption that our truths and ideals will serve us as hitherto. But we cannot live the afternoon of life according to the programme of life&dots morning; for what was great in the morning will be little at evening, and what in the morning was true will at evening have become a lie.我们完全手足无措地踏上生命的后半征程。普通大学把年轻人引入知识世界，什么学校能让四十几岁人为未来生活做好准备？没有这种学校，我们完全无备地踏入后半生；而更糟的是，我们假定现实和理想会一如既往地效忠于我们。但实际上，我们不能依照生命之晨，来度过生命之午后，因为晨时的伟大会成为傍晚时的琐碎，而晨时的真理会在傍晚变为谎言。What is essential in a work of art is that it should rise far above the realm of personal life and speak to the spirit and heart of the poet as man to the spirit and heart of mankind.艺术作品应当超越个人生活的天地、直面诗人的精神与内心深处，如同人直面人类的精神与内心。——Psy525.cn
It is, moreover, only in the state of complete abandonment and loneliness that we experience the helpful powers of our own natures.而且，只有在完全的听天由命和孤独状态，我们才能体验到我们自身天性的积极力量。In some way or other we are part of a single, all-embracing psyche, a single "greatest man".在某种意义上，我们从属于一个涵盖一切的单一心灵、从属于一个单一的“总体人”。What is stirred in us is that faraway background, those immemorial patterns of the human mind, which we have not acquired but have inherited from the dim ages of the past.在我们的内心深处被唤起的，就是那个久远的背景——古老的人类心理模式，它们源于遗传而非后天习得，我们从业已模糊的往日世代继承了它们。Every man carries within him the eternal image of woman. . . . This image is fundamentally unconscious, an hereditary factor of primordial origin . . . an imprint or &dotarchetype&dot of all the ancestral experiences of the female, a deposit, as it were, of all the impressions ever made by woman. . . .每个男人内在地拥有永恒的女人表象。...... 这一表象在根本上存在于潜意识中，它是具有原始起源的遗传因素 ...... 是所有祖先的女性体验的印记或“原型”，是女人所造成的所有印象的积淀。Life has always seemed to me like a plant that lives on its rhizome. Its true life is invisible, hidden in the rhizome. The part that appears above ground lasts only a single summer.?.?.?. What we see is the blossom, which passes. The rhizome remains.我总是感到，生活就象萌发于地下根茎的植株。生活的真正生命是不可见的，它深藏于地下根茎中，而显露出地面的可见一斑部分只能生存一个夏季。我们所见到的是将会消逝的花簇，而根茎长驻。At times I feel as if I am spread out over the landscape and inside things, and am myself living in every tree, in the plashing of the waves, in the clouds and the animals that come and go, in the procession of the seasons.有时我会感到，我伸展开来覆盖大地、延伸进万物：我感到自己生活在每一棵树木中、生活在浪花中、生活在往来无定的云朵和动物中、生活在季节的轮回中。Knowledge does not enrich us; it removes us more and more from the mythic world in which we were once at home by right of birth.知识不会使我们更丰富；它使我们越来越远离神话世界——这个我们曾经的天然家园。A belief proves to me only the phenomenon of belief, not the content of the belief.在我看来，一种信仰只是一个信仰现象，信仰的内容无足轻重。The greatest and most important problems in life are all in a certain sense insoluble. They can never be solved, but only outgrown.在某种意义上，生活中的最重大和最重要问题都是无法解决的。我们无法解决它们，只能在成长中超越它们。Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens.只有当人能够察看自己的内心深处时，他的视野才会变得清晰起来。向外看的人是在梦中、向内看的人是清醒的人。
The images of the unconscious place a great responsibility upon a man. Failure to understand them, or a shirking of ethical responsibility, deprives him of his wholeness and imposes a painful fragmentariness on his life.潜意识表象赋予人以巨大责任。不理解这些责任、或逃避道德责任，会使人失去整体性、使人的生活痛苦地碎片化。The unconscious is the unwritten history of mankind from time unrecorded.潜意识是未曾付诸文字的人类洪荒时代史。Man&dots task is to become conscious of the contents that press upward from the unconscious.人的任务，就是意识到从潜意识中努力向上涌出的内容。The dream is a little hidden door in the innermost and most secret recesses of the soul, opening into that cosmic night which was psyche long before there was any ego-consciousness, and which will remain psyche no matter how far our ego-consciousness extends. 梦是开设在灵魂深处最隐蔽角落的小小隐秘窗口，它所通向的宇宙夜空是心灵性的，在自我-意识出现之前很久就已如此，而无论我们的自我-意识的疆界如何扩展，它将始终通向心灵的夜空。
Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.每件促使我们注意到他人的事，都能使我们更好地理解自己。Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble.在生活的洪流中，没有人是毫无烦恼的。Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment and especially on their children than the unlived life of the parent.父母死气沉沉的生活对周围人特别是自己孩子的影响，是无与伦比的。The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves.
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